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Three No Spend Days, trouble at the nursing home, and tax refund arrived

March 30th, 2015 at 11:23 pm

Saturday, yesterday, and today I spent nothing. I like no spend days and had planned for these so I feel as though I actually accomplished something.

I had an almost 6 hour shift at work and met Mom for lunch afterwards. It wasn't planned but she'd called me earlier in the day and told me about a problem with Pop at the nursing home and said she wanted to meet me to talk about it. We went to Luby's and she paid for lunch. How sweet! I tried to pay but she reminded me that I paid last time and ended the discussion with, "Besides, I'm your mother." as she handed a twenty to the cashier. 'Nuff said. ;-)

The situation with my stepdad isn't good. He's a fall risk and Saturday he fell trying to get out of a wheelchair and when Mom visited that day she was told he hadn't hurt himself. When she arrived today she found him with a bruised and swollen cheek, a bit of a black eye, and rib pain. X-rays show he has no broken ribs but he's hurting and of course, we're worried about him. We can't afford to hire a sitter to stay with him so the doctor suggested enrolling him in the hospice program at the home. Mom's going to make an appointment to talk to someone about that. I don't know a great amount about hospice but if it will give him more care and keep him safer it's worth looking into.

My tax refund arrived today. Darn it, it's a little over $200! That's too much. I really try to keep the refund amount under $100 but oh well.

I can't decide if I should put the refund amount toward the EF or use it for a trip to Austin my mother and I hope to take in May. My oldest son and his wife just bought their first home and it's been at least three years since I've gone to visit them and almost seven since Mom has. A short visit with them would be wonderful and my mother can definitely use a little time away. We'll split expenses so I might be able to put a little of the refund money in the EF. As much as I need to add to add to the EF I also need to spend some time with my son and his wife. So does Mom.

Sometimes emotional wellbeing needs to be a priority, if only for a few days. Okay, that settles it. Thanks for the advice, y'all. Ha!

4 Responses to “Three No Spend Days, trouble at the nursing home, and tax refund arrived”

  1. VS_ozgirl Says:

    Good work with the 3 no spend days!

  2. FrugalTexan75 Says:

    It sounds like you made a good decision about what to do with the refund money. Smile

  3. CB in the City Says:

    Yes, visit your son! These things are important.

  4. DeniseNTexas Says:

    CB, I agree! Although I really could use the money for the EF or to pay toward debt, I miss my son and need to see him. Mom needs a diversion from Pop, even if it's for just a couple of days. She really wants to go to Barton Springs and put her feet in the water and who am I to deprive her? She's almost 80 and one never knows what the future holds. I'm taking her to Austin and we're going to have a good time. :-)

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